We visited a number of retirement communities. The one we chose was a large complex and we felt at home there, plus we could afford the fees and monthly rent. One problem, though. We had a large four bedroom three bath ranch home. I had my own private bathroom. I refused to share a bathroom and demanded a two bath villa. We got a call in a few months that here was a villa available, but alas, only one bathroom. I was asked if we wanted it. I said yes. I had been thinking, who was I to demand my own bathroom? How unreasonable. Believe it or not, that has not been a problem in any way as Jim and I are on different schedules for showers, etc. Lavender scent sticks, some scent spray and you’re all set.